Five Finger Breathing Activity
Five-Finger Breathing is a simple yet effective technique that helps children regulate their emotions through deep, controlled breathing. By tracing their fingers while inhaling and exhaling, they engage their sense of touch, making it easier to stay focused on their breath.
This activity can be done anywhere, anytime, without any materials—just two hands! It’s a great co-regulation tool.
Materials Needed
- Two people (and their hands)
- Optional: Printable Five-Finger Breathing Poster
Instructions
Prepare:
- Have your child sit comfortably in a quiet space.
- Both participants place their hands palm to palm.
Trace & Breathe:
- Spread out the fingers of one hand.
- Use the index finger of the other hand to trace up the outside of the thumb while slowly breathing in through the nose.
- Pause briefly at the tip of the thumb.
- Breathe out slowly through the mouth while tracing down the inside of the thumb.
- Continue for All Fingers:
- Repeat this process for all five fingers, tracing up while inhaling and down while exhaling.
- Encourage slow, deep breaths to help with relaxation.
Finish & Reflect:
- Once the entire hand has been traced, take one final deep breath together.
- Ask how your child feels—more calm, more focused?