Big Talks, Little Talks
Understanding How Kids Think, Feel, and Behave, One Talk at a Time.
Big Talks, Little Talks is a full eight-module video course series that walks through the foundational topics shaping how children think, feel, and behave. Created by Kelsie Mick Olds, OTR/L, the series brings together the core concepts an adult needs in order to interpret children's behavior accurately and respond in ways that actually help.
The eight modules build on each other. Regulation comes first, because everything else depends on understanding how bodies and brains get into and out of a workable state. Sensory processing comes next, giving you the lens for reading what a child's behavior is communicating. From there, the series moves through neurodiversity, the vestibular and proprioceptive senses, power and autonomy, adapting tricky tasks, sensory mismatch in shared spaces, and the developmental role of play.
By the end of the full series, you will have a complete framework you can return to any time a child's behavior has you stuck.
Completing the full series qualifies for 1.30 CEUs (13.0 contact hours) of continuing education credit.
What's Inside
Feeling All the Feelings: Co-, Dys-, and Self-Regulation
A three-part framework for understanding regulation as the match between a person's energy, their environment, and the task in front of them. Covers how dysregulation shows up across high-energy and low-energy states, and how co-regulation lays the neurological groundwork for eventual self-regulation.
Making Sense of Behavior: The Basics of Sensory Processing
An introduction to the eight sensory systems and four sensory processing profiles. Covers the difference between threshold and tolerance, and introduces a practical framework for identifying the sensory causes behind what you are seeing.
Living in a Neurodiverse World
Defines the terms that get used constantly and inconsistently (neurodiverse, neurodivergent, neurotypical, neurominority), traces why diagnosis rates keep climbing, and explains how universal design and self-identification shape neuroaffirming practice.
Moving & Soothing: The Power of Proprioceptive & Vestibular Input
A deep dive into the two bonus senses that shape regulation. Introduces proprioception as the universal regulator, with a three-subtype framework (exertion, impact, pressure) that changes what strategies you reach for and how well they work.
Kids Don't Want Your Power. They Want Their Own.
Distinguishes between self-autonomy and power over others, examines the structural disempowerment children experience daily, and offers strategies for sharing power meaningfully. Also addresses how adults' own history shapes how they read children's bids for autonomy.
100 Ways to Do Hard Things: How to Alter, Adapt, & Accommodate Tricky Tasks
A practical framework of categories you can change (position, tool, timing, people, sensory components, and more) when a self-care task is not working. Also addresses the fear-based thinking that gets in the way of trying something different.
Sensory Processing & Sensory Mismatch
What happens when two people in the same space have opposing sensory needs. Introduces the distinction between proxy and personal senses and walks through four practical tools for managing mismatch without defaulting to whoever has the most authority in the room.
Protecting the Power of Play
The research on why play outperforms direct instruction for young children, the foundational skills kids need before academics are even possible, and practical strategies for protecting and supporting play at home and in classrooms.
How Big Talks and Little Talks Work Together
Every module includes two videos. The Big Talk (about one hour to one hour and twenty-five minutes) is the professional development component for adults. The Little Talk (about fifteen to twenty-four minutes) gives kids accessible language for the same concepts in a voice designed for them.
The Little Talks are flexible by design. You get to decide how they fit the child or client in front of you.
Ways to use the Little Talks
- Show it directly. Watch with a child or client, pause as needed, and let Kelsie do the explaining.
- Break it into chunks. If a child will not sit through the full length, watch five or six minutes, talk about it, and come back for more the next week.
- Watch it yourself and explain it in your own words. For kids who will not watch a video at all, watching the Little Talk yourself gives you the language, examples, and framing to deliver the concept in your own voice, in the moment it matters.
Who Is This Course For?
This course is designed for therapists, parents, caregivers, educators, early childhood educators, social workers, and anyone who supports neurodivergent children and wants a complete, practical, neuroaffirming framework to work from.
If you have ever felt like you were missing something essential about how to read a child's behavior, or like the strategies you were taught do not actually hold up in real situations, this is the series that closes that gap.


